Your ultimate guide to self esteem and self confidence

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self esteem and self confidence

We are told that we have to have self esteem and self confidence in life.

They are told to be one of the most essential things in our lives if we are to be happy.

As much as these things are true, we aren’t told about how they can be achieved. We are often left on our own regarding the ways to make them.

Given in the list below are some excellent ways you can boost your self esteem and self confidence:

1. Build something of value

One of the most essential foundations of self esteem is confidence.

Nobody can find self esteem or confidence if they don’t build / create something.

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So get started with building something; education, body, business, family, etc. The point is that you need to be busy with creating something.

The more you build something, the more self esteem and self confidence you can find in life.

2. keep Working everyday

Another great way to build up your self esteem and self confidence is to work.

The more you work, the more you have a sense of purpose and direction. On the other side, the less you work, the less you lack purpose and direction.

And guess which choice will help to build you up?

3. Do something creative

Find something creative to do.

all people who did anything creative said that they felt terrible about themselves.

To create something is to accomplish something, which adds to your self esteem and self confidence.

4. Pay attention to your uncertainties/insecurities and embrace them

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Find something creative to do.

All people who did anything creative said that they felt terrible about themselves.

 To create something is to accomplish something, which adds to your self esteem and self confidence.

5. Look at your failures as lessons rather than failures

Start looking at your failures as lessons. The more you look at them as failures, the more miserable you become.

And when you do look at them as lessons, learn from it and don’t repeat it.

6. Acknowledge your past successes

People who lack self esteem and self confidence tend to downplay their achievements.

This is something that has to stop. Acknowledge your past victories as victories. It will give you a base to achieve more.

7. Nobody climbed to the top at the first try

One of the biggest causes of low self esteem and self confidence in life is the lack of success at the first try.

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Most people don’t climb to the top at their first try. On the contrary, they do so after trying over and over again.

The success process is generally hidden, meaning that the only thing we are left to see, is the finished product rather than the work involved.

When people attempt to reach the finish line without understanding the rest of the story, they will end up becoming miserable in life.

8. Eliminate the pessimists in your life

Get rid of any pessimistic people in your life.

If you can’t cut them off entirely, reduce the amount of time you spend with them.

The more you spend time with them, the more you allow them to tear you down. They are losers, to begin with, and will drag you down to their level.

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9. Be positive and associate with optimists

This is the opposite of the previous point.

The more you associate with optimists, the more you will be able to build up your life, and consequently, your self esteem and self confidence.

10. Help to build others up, instead of tearing them down

This is a summary of the past two points, albeit directed at you.

Help to build others up in their life, rather than tearing them down. You cannot build self esteem and self confidence in life by putting them down. Even if you do manage to achieve it, you will find that it only lasts for a while, before you end up becoming miserable.

To sum it up, these things and others like it are some of the best ways to build up your self esteem and self confidence.

Do note that they will not work in the short run by any chance. You will need to apply them over a long period consistently. But if you stick to it, you will find that your natural levels of self esteem and self confidence will gradually increase over time. 

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